These 2 Love Languages Are Least Likely To Last, According to UCF Expert
Do you like to offer your partner kind words and compliments? Or do you prefer to express your affection with gifts, or by taking care of the daily chores? A few years ago, in a bestselling book, Gary Chapman identified five different "languages of love" that we all unconsciously use: words of affirmation, physical touch, receiving gifts, acts of service, and quality time. But are some of the five particularly compatible with others or especially ill-suited? And how can you learn them? Helping out with daily tasks, to make your partner's life bit easier, is a powerful symbol of affection for some. Sejal Mehta Barden, executive director of the Marriage and Family Research Institute at the University of Central Florida, told Newsweek that these tasks could be as simple as filling the gas tank in your partner's car, doing the dishes or taking out the trash. "Acts that make us feel loved," she said. Barden recommends that couples discuss their love languages so they can work out how to spend time together in a way that makes both feel loved. "A classic example might be one of the partners has quality time as a love language and another partner has physical touch," she says. "You can easily put both of those together of having quality time, watching a movie, and making sure that you're not sitting on separate chairs, but you're choosing to sit on a sofa where you can also have physical touch associated together."
Newsweek